HIV/AIDS in modern life....



HIV/AIDS Victim

In the olden days....people could live promiscuous lives without having a care that they will contact any diseases from their sexual encounters...it was fun...it was awesome, but that day and age is no more because in the world we live in today, you cannot have multiple sexual partners and not contract some sort of disease. The 21st century....the fast life.

In today's society, if you live fast...you will probably die even faster because we are faced with many challenges such as drug and alcohol abuse amongst our youth, incurable diseases that kill millions such as HIV/AIDS  and so forth.  Living in the information age we are all exposed and have access to information regarding how we can protect ourselves from these diseases and having said that, you still find ignorant people who do not protect themselves from  these diseases although they are aware that there are millions of people suffering and dying from this well-known disease. Why are we so blind from reality...this disease is killing millions...or even billions....when will we wake up and take a stand against this disease???

we are so blind to HIV/AIDS

 The 21st century....modern life...."live fast...die even faster". Let us protect ourselves people, because indeed you only live once.

Female circumcision in the 21st century.....



Is it really  necessary?

What is female circumcision really...and in the times we living in...can we really say that bit is a must for a female to go through this?

Female circumcision ,also known as female genital cutting and female circumcision, is defined by the  (WHO) as "all procedures that involve partial or total removal of the external female genitalia, or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons." I honestly believe that there's no real 'purpose' of  female circumcision . Some opponents will say it's to control sexuality, advocates will say it's to promote health, prevent disease and for looks.

As a female living in the 21st century, i am not circumcised and I'm living a n normal life whereby my sexual life is pleasurable. I do not believe that it is not as important for a woman to circumcises as it is for a man because for them if they do not it can have health complications such as easily contracting sexually transmitted infections. What is your take on female circumcision? does it really make a difference? and do you think circumcised women are more pleasurable than uncircumcised ones?






Really???? is all this pain neccessary?

How can men value us when we settle for second best?

My man...or ours?

How can a men honestly respect and value a woman when she settles for being his's second best? yes , i know at first you probably gonna think he will leave his girlfriend or wife for you....but chances are... that will  never happen.

Men can get down and dirty with ladies who avail themselves to them knowing very well that they are taken but it is really unlikely for them to dump their straight girlfriends for those ladies who settle for being second best as they can clearly settle for anything just to have a man. A woman is something to be loved, respected and cherished and some men do not know this thus take advantage of those who present themselves to be used,usually for sex).

As a woman...i value and love myself and i want my own man, i can share a lot of things, but not my man. My advice to them ladies out there would be "GET YOUR OWN MAN".

We are starting to resent them....

Resentment for the opposite sex.

They beat on us....the cheat on us....rape us....and kill us. Theses are the men that make up our societies today. How can we honestly love them when they do such?

In the societies we live in today, you find that a house hold consists of a woman and her children and no father figure. They hurt us and then run away and forget all about us. Can we really say modern lifestyle is better than traditional lifestyle in this sense? because men of today do not stand by their families or stand for what is right...

But then again....what if we women are to blame? what if men run away from us because of how demanding we can be? could it be that we drive them away ? Although this is possible, men should stand strong as they are the heads of our house holds....they are our rocks.

Most women today because of how hurt they have been by men, turn to the lesbian life whereby a woman takes another woman as her partner and its really sad because it is considered wrong and also an act against God.

Yes...it might be wrong, but what can or should women do when men fail to treat them right?

The 21st century...''the fast life''



How can one respect such...



Today because sex is such a common and casual thing, girls who just sleep with whoever has the fattest wallet are seen as a usual and normal  and the things they do are seen as common.With such behaviour, how can we expect men to respect us and stop calling us things like 'slut', "bitch',hoe' etc.It is really impossible if we do not respect ourselves as women. I was sitting the other day with a friend of mine and came across a picture on Facebook that was really causing a stir .In this picture were two naked girls laying on a bed saying how much they were sexed. It is evident that they had been used for sex and left there wearing almost nothing.

We live in a hip and happening society which is driven by money, alcohol, fast cars and sex. In the modern societies we exist in , we no longer regard our traditions as a guide to how we have to conduct and handle ourselves not only in public but also at home.

It is really upsetting to see such things being posted onto social networking sites, but what i believe is most upsetting is how some women just sleep with random people without having a care about how it will reflect onto them and how they are degrading all women. The only way we can be respected is if we start by respecting ourselves.

Sex in traditional and modern lifestyles...



Traditionally, sex is concidered as a sacred thing between a man and a woman. It is something that traditional people rarely talk about as some feel uncomfortable or even offended by sex talk.However, in the modern world we live in today ,sex is something we are all used to because we are not afraid to talk about it with our friends and to some, even their families.. Traditional and modern ways both have a different view on sex and these are:

 

Traditional

·       Sex  is regarded as lustful and dirty

·       There are sexual restrictions (man should always be in charge)

·       Things such as homosexual sex interactions are forbidden

Modern life

·       Sex is common and casual

·       Both men and women can take charge in bed as there are no sexual restrictions

·       Homosexual sex relations are allowed and practiced because we are now used to gays and lesbians in our societies.

Modern ways in this sence are advantageous because they breakes down the communication boundries that our customs have built over time and allow us to help one another in providing information such as sex tips, sex dos and donts, how to protect yourself from deseases, and how people can satisfy each other sexually by knowing their likes and dislike through communication whereas tradition forbidds such talks and thus limits ones knowledge of sex. what is your take on how sex is portrayd in modern and traditional lifestyles?



Is it really ok for a girl to ask a guy out????

Women VS Men

 Women of today are confident....sexy and go after anything they want. The ancient times whereby tradition forbid a woman from asking a man out are long gone. This....is the 21st century and women of today do not wait for men to take charge, they go out there and make it happen!!.

However,with that being said, can we really say it is okay for a woman to ask a man out? i personally think it is just wrong. Men should be the ones who run after us, not the other way round because in most cases women who ask men out are regarded as cheap and desperate. Question to the ladies:do you honestly want to be perceived in that manner? i don't think any woman would.

Men like to feel in charge... it gives them a sense of edge and makes them feel like the alpha males of our societies and by taking some of their roles we make them in a way feel inferior and useless. No women wants a man who is not confident r sure of himself....how do we expect for them to be what we want them to be when we treat them as if they are unable to fulfil their responsibilities?

We make them feel little


YES WE ARE BEAUTIFUL.....WE ARE SEXY....CONFIDENT AND INDEPENDENT....BUT LETS ALLOW THE MEN TO PLAY THEIR PART.