Thursday, 27 September 2012

Female circumcision in the 21st century.....


Is it really  necessary?
What is female circumcision really...and in the times we living in...can we really say that bit is a must for a female to go through this?

Female circumcision ,also known as female genital cutting and female circumcision, is defined by the  (WHO) as "all procedures that involve partial or total removal of the external female genitalia, or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons." I honestly believe that there's no real 'purpose' of  female circumcision . Some opponents will say it's to control sexuality, advocates will say it's to promote health, prevent disease and for looks.

As a female living in the 21st century, i am not circumcised and I'm living a n normal life whereby my sexual life is pleasurable. I do not believe that it is not as important for a woman to circumcises as it is for a man because for them if they do not it can have health complications such as easily contracting sexually transmitted infections. What is your take on female circumcision? does it really make a difference? and do you think circumcised women are more pleasurable than uncircumcised ones?






Really???? is all this pain neccessary?

Thursday, 20 September 2012

How can men value us when we settle for second best?

My man...or ours?
How can a men honestly respect and value a woman when she settles for being his's second best? yes , i know at first you probably gonna think he will leave his girlfriend or wife for you....but chances are... that will  never happen.

Men can get down and dirty with ladies who avail themselves to them knowing very well that they are taken but it is really unlikely for them to dump their straight girlfriends for those ladies who settle for being second best as they can clearly settle for anything just to have a man. A woman is something to be loved, respected and cherished and some men do not know this thus take advantage of those who present themselves to be used,usually for sex).

As a woman...i value and love myself and i want my own man, i can share a lot of things, but not my man. My advice to them ladies out there would be "GET YOUR OWN MAN".

Friday, 14 September 2012

We are starting to resent them....

Resentment for the opposite sex.
They beat on us....the cheat on us....rape us....and kill us. Theses are the men that make up our societies today. How can we honestly love them when they do such?

In the societies we live in today, you find that a house hold consists of a woman and her children and no father figure. They hurt us and then run away and forget all about us. Can we really say modern lifestyle is better than traditional lifestyle in this sense? because men of today do not stand by their families or stand for what is right...

But then again....what if we women are to blame? what if men run away from us because of how demanding we can be? could it be that we drive them away ? Although this is possible, men should stand strong as they are the heads of our house holds....they are our rocks.

Most women today because of how hurt they have been by men, turn to the lesbian life whereby a woman takes another woman as her partner and its really sad because it is considered wrong and also an act against God.
Yes...it might be wrong, but what can or should women do when men fail to treat them right?